Tuesday, November 10, 2015

台湾游记 - Day 1 (马来西亚 -> 桃园机场 -> 西门町)

这次到台湾的第一次体验是做 MAS (Malaysia Airline),也是我第一次坐 MAS 飞比较远的行程。上一次坐 MAS 也是飞到 Bangkok 罢了。

我只能说 MAS 实在是太棒了,我想我从此以后应该都不会再做 Air Asia 了。(话说,我 Air Asia 还有 25 k 的点数,看来得浪费了,再不然就拿来飞 local flight 吧。)

Tip: 不过飞 MAS 的朋友们,我的建议是,如果你没有预先买位子,就千万不要 online check in。因为你 online check in 时,会发现你能选的位子都是单独(而且是中间)的位子,就算是一起买机票,也不能选择坐在一起(而且上飞机后会发现你隔壁的位子根本就是空的!)。所以千万千万要到机场 check in,因为在 counter 你可以要求柜台把你和你的 partner 位子排在一起。当然,如果想要在飞机上有艳遇的朋友就另当别论了。 

而我,就是傻傻的 online check in 了,所以要到飞机上才临时和老公隔壁的旅客要求交换位子。运气很好的,一位好心的阿姨愿意和我们交换位子,所以我们能如愿以偿的坐在一起。(哪有人度蜜月是分开做的啊!)

一上到飞机,你就会发现枕头和棉被都已经准备好在位子上了,每个人都有哦。(不像 Air Asia 还要自己买)

然后,每个位子前面都有 build in entertainment set,一开始,我和老公都很疑惑怎么声音那么小声,到底要怎么看电影呢?殊不知,飞机起飞不久后,就会有空姐来派耳机了,实在太贴心了啦!

由于我是早上的飞机,所以我的 in flight meal 是早餐。极力推介 MAS 的 nasi lemak!真的很好吃,而且有好多新鲜的 sambal 虾!

Tip: MAS 的飞机餐是可以要求第二碟的。如果吃不饱,或者吃了还想再吃,可以和空姐 / 空少要求多一份。我们竟然回程才发现,所以错过了吃第二碟 nasi lemak 的机会,超哀怨的!而且,所有的饮料都可以无限量要求!我就要求不少过 5 杯的果汁吧。

五小时后,我们就顺利地抵达了台湾松山机场。

Tip: 从马来西亚飞到台湾的朋友,记得在飞机上就和空姐 / 空少拿入境卡填写。不然到入境处的时候会很浪费时间的哦。

一下机,我们当然是立刻就去买台湾的吃到饱电话卡,建议是旅途中的其中一人拿就行了,其他人需要用的时候再 share hotspot 就行了。

我们也有去 sign up itaiwan 的 account,据说可以在很多地方上网。我个人认为,根本就不需要浪费时间 sign up,因为它的网速实在太太太太慢了,连图片都 load 不到。

现在的松山机场还没有直达的捷运,只能搭巴士或德士离开。我们是选择搭巴士,毕竟德士实在太贵了,不适合自由行的我们。不过听说捷运明年三月就会开通了,到时候去台湾的朋友就有福了。

Tip: 如果是自由行的朋友,建议一定要 install google map 在买电话卡的朋友的电话里。基本上在台湾,不管你要去哪里,google map 都会很清楚的建议所有可以选择的公共交通,超方便的!

所以我们也是跟着 google map 的建议,找到了到台北车站的巴士,很顺利的上了车。然后再通过捷运抵达了我们第一个目的地 - 西门町。

其实我们第一天在西门町的行程真的没什么特别,就到处走走看看。所谓的西门红馆其实也没很特别,就是一个拍照的旅游景点罢了。而且,西门町的商品基本价位会偏高(当然东西也比较时尚),所以基本上我们也没买到什么东西。

建议安排后面几天才到西门町,那你买东西真的会比较买的下手。不然就会像我们这样浪费了一天的行程罢了。

暂时第一天就这样了,等有空的时候再写剩下的天数。

Thursday, January 9, 2014

ME

Today my cousin told me that I should not be too definite about the facts that I am never ever going to stay at home as housewife, as we are never gonna know what's going to happen in future, which I agreed. 

BUT, although I do not know what's going to happen in future, I know my characteristic. I really don't think I am that kind of people who will just stay at home, take care of baby and wait for my husband to come home. It will be even worse when I am not financial independent, when I need to rely on my husband to give me allowance, when I need to ask permission for buying new gifts or going for a spa to pamper myself. 

Well, I admit, I most probably do not have the luck to marry a rich husband and be the "rich tai tai". 

BUT, I really enjoy my lifestyle now. Well, maybe not much on the working overtime, but in overall I still love my life. 

I love the fact that I am financial independent. I can do shopping anytime I want. I can pamper myself with whatever spa, pedicure, manicure. Although it brings some headache when I see my credit card bill, BUT I can spend MY money without asking for permission from my the other half. 

I love the fact that my husband-to-be is willing to give me freedom. I can hangout with my best friends anytime. I can have sleepover at best friends' house anytime. I can go out for a drink with my best friends at any time. Although it is quite torturing when I have hangover and have alcohol rashes, BUT it still worth it for all the fun that I have having. 

I love the fact that I felt that I am a woman now. I love to dress myself up with beautiful clothes and high hues. Although it is tiring to wake up in the morning and sometimes I get tired to dress myself up, BUT everything is worth when I receive compliment in the office. 

I love the fact that I am successful in my career. I love to be the problem solver, the planner, the angle, the saver in the office. Although it can be stressful when major events clashed in, BUT all the stress is gone the moment when my boss saw my performance and give monetary rewards. 

MOST IMPORTANTLY, I love the fact that I can be MYSELF. I can be who I am. Nobody is trying to change me. Of course, some advises will come in on and off for me to improve, but it aims to make me a better person. 

So, I am not sure if I will be contented to become a housewife in future, BUT I know that for NOW, becoming a housewife is definitely not what I want in life. 

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

The FIRST Thanksgiving Letter

After doing so many batches of exhibitions, this is like the first time, yup, the first time ever I received a thanksgiving email from the students, and I am feeling really proud about it.

It is like, finally someone recognised and knew that you have been working hard at backstage. At least there is someone who does not take everything as granted, someone who knows that even though I may not be actually involved in creating those props, I contribute my time and effort too.

IT FELT REALLY GREAT!!

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Dear Kimmie,

I especially appreciate the information and advice you have provided when carrying out early preparatory work of the exhibition. Your assistance has been invaluable to me during this exhibition. Your advices and opinions helped me a lot not only on my creative team's tasks, but also my other team mates.Thank you for your constant encouragement and support.

Again, thank you so much. I greatly appreciate your generosity.

Best Regards,

Josephine Yee,
Creative Director of Graduation Exhibition 1101- Unsolved Case 1101.

Monday, November 11, 2013

Early

Although it has always been difficult for me to wake up early in the morning, it still feel great to reach office early and I would have time to surf the internet before I start the work of the day. ;)

P/S: This status is not posted on Facebook as I always don't feel comfortable posting most of the status that are related to work.

Thursday, October 24, 2013

Little Things in Life

It's the third day of Creative October 2013 and I am already dead tired. I have not been able to sleep till 2am since last Tuesday and it is really BAD!!

Creative October is one of our annual signature events whereby speakers are invited to conduct a sharing or workshop on topics which are not related to Interior Design. In fact, comparing to ID Week, this is actually an event where I can sort of relate more to myself.

This year, I have been really honored to be able to invite Michelle Teh from Nom Nom Media, a sub-company of Nuffnang to come to share about "Social Media vs. Lifestyle".

The sharing was light yet interesting. From my observation, the students and staff really enjoyed themselves, which is great!! It is definitely so much better especially comparing with the speaker on earlier day. Let's just not go into details for the earlier talk, as it is not going to sound nice.

When I first started blogging, I have always been really envy those bloggers who can just earn a living by just blogging. It seems easy, but it is definitely not easy AT ALL. You must be really passionate and maintain the consistency. Sadly, it happens to be quite difficult for me.

Anyway, starting blogging with the mindset of wanting to get famous and earn money is definitely not a good start.

After couple of years of trying (did I even tried?!), I finally figured out that blogging is just not my cup of tea. I can't even fulfill the simplest requirement - consistency. And so, I decided to give up and stop thinking about it. BUT, I have always remember Nuffnang, being such an important community for all the bloggers.

This round, when I was searching for blogging, I decided to engage Timothy Tiah, one of the founders of Nuffnang. Unfortunately, he was unable to make it due to some family reason. BUT, it was really kind of him to help to dedicate the task to his other colleagues - Michelle, which turns up to be a really great speaker!!

Somehow, I was thinking that, things really happened for a reason. Little things in life may not seems important, but one day, just one fine day, it is going to turn back and bring some impacts (regardless big or small) to our life.

It is really important to be appreciative on our daily life and be responsible to what we do and what we say, because I believe in karma. Things will always turn back to us at the most unexpected timing.

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P/S: Correction to my previous post - Facebook vs. Blogging (http://newlife1126.blogspot.com/2013/10/facebook-vs-blogging.html), I have spoken with Michelle today over lunch, apparently the number of bloggers have been increasing on daily basis. Conclusion, probably it is only happening around my friends' circle.


Friday, October 18, 2013

Facebook vs. Blogging

Just clear the list of friends' blogs that I used to follow. Sadly, now there are only three left. Out of that three, there are only one who is still actively updating.

In Facebook, I have 1,100 friends and I can never finish reading my news feed.

Somehow I start wondering how many people are still blogging.

Nowadays, most people prefer to update their status or take a photo of themselves and it can be easily uploaded to Facebook at anywhere, as long as they have a smart phone and iPad which can connected to Internet.

For the past few months, every time when I felt like blogging, I was too lazy to switch on my laptop and start typing. I tried to download blogspot/ blogger application through App Store couple of months ago and there were no such apps.

Then, I write to download some diary apps and attempt to start writing through my iPad and somehow it just felt different comparing to me sitting down in front of my computer and type.

And yet, I do not feel like posting on Facebook because I think it was too public and I just feel weird to make such a public announcement at times.

I have always find that it is difficult to upload photos to blogspot, especially most of my photos are in my iPhone.

Somehow I felt that blogspot has not been improving along with the ever changing technology.

I have been seeing some China blogging platform where they allowed user to direct upload pictures to the blogging server and it would be so much easier for us to insert photos to our blog entry.

Anyway, it is just a random thought when I was clearing the list.

Life Update

This is my second blog post of the day. Well, since I am in the mood, might as well just write more huh? I would never know when is the next time that I might write again.

I am feeling so much better after my last blog. This shows the power of blogging. Although I am doubtful at times if anyone ever read my blog, but still it was extremely useful to help me to release my stress, tension and emotion.

Anyone, if anyone does read my blog, I just would like to have a little life update on myself.

I have friends who I can have dinner with, I can joke with, but all of them are my colleagues. I barely have any extra time to hang around or catch up with my uni friends or friends of other social groups.

I went shopping at least once a month, but my only shopping partner is my boyfriend, who has now became my fiance.

I have a bright career, but my average working hours is from 9am to 9pm, sometimes even go up to 12am.

I have regular exercise, I practiced yoga on weekly basis, but the class location is in my office and I get back to work immediately after my class.

I have irregular period.

I have dinner every night but the meals are irregular.

Conclusion: I have a normal yet unhealthy lifestyle. I have all the criteria of how a normal life should be like and yet all seems unhealthy.

Hurt

It has been awhile since I last blogged.

I have not been in the mood to blog, nor do I have the time to blog.

But, it has not been an exact good day for me.

Today, I have unintentionally hurt a friend of mine. A friend that I have never meant to treat him as such. He is one of the colleagues that I would never want to hurt. He has always been so kind, so supportive, so friendly and so helpful.

I was being rude, impatient, and I said things without thinking. Although things were said out of stress and I did not meant it. What was done cannot be done and the feeling sucks.

I has been trying so hard to control my emotion and today I just lost it. It should not happened and I shall not let it happen ever again.

I think it might be the hormone. I know my period is coming soon. Whatever. Stop giving myself excuses.

Just remember the mistakes and do not repeat it again.

Thursday, March 14, 2013

So Simple - Stacie Orrico


(It could all be so simple, simple)

Don't need high heels
For a good feel
You can keep the fancy clothes
I'll take walkin in the rain
Over things material
I'll trade Melrose and the big names
Give me faces that I know
Just play a melody that everybody knows

Take it down, down, down
And strip it to the core
I don't really need much less is more, more, more

[CHORUS:]
True to life, true to me
The way it's got to be
So simple, so simple, so simple
Live to love, love to be
Absolutely free
(so simple, so simple, simple)

Give me wisdom, plain and truthful
Teach me somethin I don't know
Plain as education, inspiration I suppose (yeah yeah)
Give me family, on a Sunday
And I'll be just fine
There's nothing in the world
That's worth more of my time

Take it down, down, down
And strip it to the core
I don't really need much less is more, more, more

[CHORUS x2]

Livin my dream, is my song to the world
(let 'em hear it)
Sharin' my soul and spirit
I'm hopin that you hear it
Got one (one) life (life) to live (live)
It's only what you make it (make it)
Every new day's a chance worth takin

[CHORUS x2]

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

走在红毯那一天 - 彭佳慧


算一算时间 认识他也好几年
看一看身边 好朋友都有好姻缘
只剩下我 只剩下你 还继续
苦守寒窑 一等十八年
有些事 急也没有用 我了解
我不想 人老珠黄 才被人送作堆
走在红毯那一天 矇上白纱的脸
微笑中留下的眼泪 一定很美
走在红毯那一天 带上幸福的戒
有个人 廝守到永远 是一生所愿
数着时间的日子 一点也不好过
到哪天 他的良心 才会发现
女人啊 要找个真诚的男人
哪有那么难 真有那么难

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今天看华人星光大道的时候,听到了这首歌。
听到的时候,不禁开始想。。。

如果当初,
在我最想结婚的时候,
如果当初,
他不考虑那么多,
如果当初,
我们都冲动多一点,
是不是一切都会不同?
我们的结果会不会不一样?

我其实还记得,
当他终于求婚的时候,
我有多开心,
虽然我知道那种开心是一种“我终于嫁出去了”的兴奋感。。。

这几天,不免会被亲戚追问,到底几时要结婚。
我真的不明白,
他们一直问一直问,是想我怎么答呢?
其实我也很想嫁啊。。。

看着身边朋友一个一个的嫁出去,
有的还有了孩子,
他们以为我不急吗?

只是时机还没到,
我又能怎样呢?

当初,我以为时机到了,结果对方不是对的人。。。
就算真的勉强嫁了,
我想我也不一定会幸福,
所以我宁愿不嫁。。。
虽然手尾不是普通的长。。。

现在,我感觉遇到对的人,
可是又要为钱烦。。。
我真的不明白,
那些亲戚又不是没有结过婚,他们怎么会不明白结个婚有多贵 =.= 

我其实很怕。。。
会不会拖拖下。。。
我又不想嫁了。。。

我其实知道,我真的不年轻了。。。
就算样子多baby face,我始终都逼近30了。。。
可是,我真的很想很想幸福。。。
就这么一次。。。我真的想好好选择,然后紧紧抓住属于我的幸福。。。

Saturday, January 19, 2013

梦想 Dream



‎"I have my dream." 
The reason that keep me going. o(^_-)O

开心

一个人的开心与不开心绝对是自己的选择。如果选择了不开心,就不要一直埋怨身边的人,觉得自己被忽略,觉得自己被冷落。因为没有人有义务一直留在你身边哄你开心。如果觉得自己被冷落,那就自己站起来,自己走进人群。如果一直在埋怨,那你永远都会停留在同样不开心的阶段。

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

转载:小S 20條幸福女人名言金句

愛情類格言

  1. 不需要追求跟你的男人有聊不完的話!男人就是男人,能在寒風中緊緊抓著他的手臂,就是一種幸福!想聊到昏天暗地、欲罷不能,那是姐妹淘的事!強求,反而辛苦!就安靜的跟你的男人吃頓飯吧!
  2. 男人啊!女人不是不了解你!是看穿你了,懶得理你!或是看穿你了,不想忍你!最常是看穿你了,但決定陪你演下去!
  3. 有幸找到疼你的男人,就要每天抱著感謝的心情、溫柔的對他、溫柔的看他、溫柔的跟他說話、別耍脾氣自以為是公主,少說討人厭的話,多說你感謝他、愛他!這樣才值得別人疼你!
  4. 挑男人沒別的,就是要疼你,任他再有錢、再有才華、再帥、口才再好、智慧再高、能力再強、孝順感動天、大愛助眾生,不疼你,一點屁用都沒有!
  5. 當你需要依附在男人身上才過的下去,他就不會覺得你有魅力了。你自己也可以把人生打點好,但偶爾露出沒有他不行的樣子,他就會覺得自己好重要而且你也好迷人!
  6. 不需要花心思討好討厭你的人,多解釋反而狼狽,就讓他隨心所欲的討厭你吧!花心思討好你愛的人、愛你的人,值得太多了!
  7. 男人真的無法了解我們有多少話可以聊!不管多細微的想法都可以分享,多無聊的感受都可以形容,女人,沒有姐妹淘怎麼辦啊?

自我修養提升

  1. 當你急于想證明自己有內容的時候,卻常常顯得很淺薄。當你極力想展現自己很性感時,卻容易顯得很可笑。有時反而當你放松時,卻不小心看起來有種自在的魅力!
  2. 如果你要說:這件事你不要跟別人說喔!那你幹脆就別說!因為此事一定會傳出去的,聽者也會跟別人講,這件事我只跟你說喔!哪天事情傳出去了,不要怪別人,因為真正的大嘴巴其實是自己!
  3. 他們一定覺得我……我不去他們一定會……大家一定都在背後說我……人常常不小心把自己想得太重要,殊不知,大家只希望把自己的人生過好,別人的事,聊聊就算,所以真的不太需要在乎別人的想法,就像你也不是真的很在乎別人的生活!
  4. 聽到別人跟你有非常不同的觀念,有時會很生氣,但氣了也不能改變他,只好試著去理解為何他會有這種觀念,跟他平行,不一定要交集!
  5. 一直覺得別人瞧不起自己,有兩種可能性:1被害妄想症2知道自己太多有可能被別人瞧不起的秘密!不然人真的沒那麼愛瞧不起別人,因為人通常比較在乎自己!
  6. 不因為別人跟你不同就憎恨他!不因為跟你一樣的人比較多就覺得世界應該長這樣,狹隘,是仇恨的根源、是倒退的主因!

人際交往注意要點

  1. 昨天錄影,來賓說有兩個問題很不禮貌:1怎麼還不結婚?2怎麼還不生小孩?我覺得,怎麼看起來那麼累?也是個令人發火的問題!關心,有時就是個美麗的包裝,打開之後,發現裏面放了一把劍。
  2. 抱怨不是壞事,但要找對人抱怨!剛跟大s抱怨了一下今天很累……現在整個人精神又來了!找錯人抱怨,他可能不但不想聽,還會跟別人說你是個不知足的傢夥!不然抱怨,其實是健康的!
  3. 別人嗆到的時候,不要問他:你還好吧?要不要喝水?因為一邊咳嗽還要一邊回答問題,很難受!大家就聊別的,讓他盡情的咳個夠!拍拍他背,讓他知道你們有在關心就好!
  4. 有的時候會對生活中的一切,都覺得很習慣,看著身邊的人也覺得很理所當然,可是只要稍微一感受,就會發現自己有多愛他們,多感謝這一切,當這種感覺來的時候,就要說出來!
  5. 這個方法我現在用在每一個人身上,只要有人跟我對看,我就對他微笑,你會發現生活變得愉快起來,而且自己跟別人都變得比較討人喜歡!
  6. 當別人怕你的時候,就什麼都不會跟你講了,父母亦然、同事亦然、朋友亦然,我與其被過于尊敬,還不如被輕松喜歡。
  7. 長輩沒別的,就是有空陪他們吃飯,說一些令他們開心的話!如果總是在想自己有多愛家人,卻一直沒空陪他們,至少打個電話問候一下,你心裏縱有再濃的愛,藏在裏面,不說不做,別人真的不知道!不要一回頭才遺憾,我當時為什麼不……

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

日记?周记?2013.01.08,胡言乱语中....

我承认我并不知道我想写什么,一点概念都没有。就纯粹觉得自己该写blog了。

最近的我,算好还是不好呢。

工作表现开始恢复稳定了,至少感觉到自己的努力了,一切仿佛都回到了轨道,至少感觉心定了。去年真的是很糟糕的一年。太多的大起大落,影响了工作表现,影响了老板对我的心情。可是,我相信,一切会过去的。保持平常心,保持专注力,我一定能做的更好。工作做不完,大不了就OT,反正又不是没有试过。再加上,最近连游戏的心情都没有,把心情放在工作上,怎么说都划算的多。

最近的我。。。穷毙了。我上一次那么穷应该是在大学时期。最可悲的是,现在才月头。我其实没有很懂我要怎么熬过这个月。不敢吃,每用一分钱都在斤斤计较。

不敢吃应该是最大的突破,毕竟我向来都很注重吃这个part。一餐当两餐吃,能不吃就不吃,一份食物能分几次吃完就分几次,晚上都去7-Eleven买速食。好吧,我听起来也觉得自己可怜,果然over budget了就是这样啊 =.=

宝贝刚刚给了我一笔钱。他应该是忍不住看我继续虐待自己吧 =.= 我自己其实是真的觉得还好,我也很阿Q的告诉自己这是个减肥的机会,虽然最后可能会有营养不良的几率 @.@ (我是真的觉得应该不会那么严重啦~)毕竟我刚出院没有多久,而且还是因为肠胃问题进去的,我想我真的吓到他了吧~ 最后,答应了宝贝我每一餐都会吃,吃多吃少由我决定,不过,只要有吃,怎么都比没有吃健康多了吧~

那笔钱,可能的话,我真的不想用,毕竟我向来都没有伸手和男人拿钱花的习惯。当作帮他先拿着,月尾再存起来吧~ 我也只能这样安慰自己让自己好过点了。

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

三角恋

我发现我无法不觉得困扰,
三角恋这种东西实在令人无法理解。

如何在爱一个人的同时再把爱分给另一个人、或者另两个人,我不明白。
如何同时维持两段关系,我不明白。
同时爱那么多人不会累吗,我不明白。
一脚踏两船、或者多船,不会很花钱、很花心思吗,我不明白。
如果不够爱,为什么还要继续在一起,我不明白。
如果不想天长地久,为什么要给假希望,我不明白。

我自认不是什么清高的人。
我也会精神出轨。
我也会喜欢上其他人。

可是至少我不会给别人虚假的希望、假象。

我看到一个文章,大意是,

当你同时喜欢上两个人,那一定就是你不够喜欢第一个人。

偶尔的出轨,
可以说是偶尔的错觉,
可以说是在一起久的感觉淡了,
可以说你不是对的人,
可以说前面有更好的。

可是,我无法理解,更无法谅解惯性出轨。

我认识不少所谓的“花花公子”,可是我从来没有试过亲眼目睹一切的发生,更没有试过被警告不能“乱说话”。因为有被吓止,所以头脑简单,说话直接的我,不免更加困扰。

我向来都是想到什么就说什么,
开心不开心的哗啦哗啦的说出来,
身边好朋友也很习惯当我的垃圾桶,
听我述说身边发生的大事小事。

我知道,
我应该置身事外。

事实是,除了置身事外,我也无法做多什么东西。
我没有那么资格,更没有那个资格去做任何东西。

所以,我还是管好自己,把不该看到的东西收起来,当没有一回事,毕竟安全。

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

异性朋友

最近我在想,另一半的异性朋友太多,是不是真的很不能接受呢?

我承认我是其中一个异性朋友比较多的女生,向来我的男生缘都比女生缘强,当然近几年这种情况有好转了一点。我的女性朋友也增加了~ (应该说年纪越大,身边朋友无论男女都变少了吧 =.=)

我的运气也向来不错,找到的另一半向来都不太介意我异性朋友比较多这回事。而且事实上我有几个男性好朋友。

当然,我也有听过那些很常为了另一半很多异性朋友而不停的吵架的例子,有些甚至会吵到分手。

我想最大的差别是,我很清楚的让我的另一半知道我和异性朋友之间的关系。我最近很常说的一句话是,

“如果要我在现有的异性朋友之中选一个出来当男朋友,我是绝对选不出的”

因为我和我所有异性朋友之间都没有模糊地带,大家都很清楚彼此之间不可能发展,彼此更加不适合对方,也不是对方 cup of tea。我们就是很纯粹在当“好兄弟”、“好姐妹”。

那些比较好感情的,我们甚至于会把彼此的另一半带去对方过目。所以我们的另一半就会很清楚的知道我们身边的异性有谁,进而降低猜忌的几率。

如果自己都模模糊糊,结结巴巴,那你要另一半怎么相信你是问心无愧的呢?

我甚至很常会和自己友好的异性朋友的女朋友成为朋友。因为该骂自己朋友的时候,我还是会骂,我甚至会和他的女朋友一起数落他的不是。(都说我是中立的)当然我也把分寸拿捏得很好,我绝对不会自己去穿朋友的底,毕竟要是搞到人家吵架,甚至于分手,我可担当不起啊~

总结的说,如果要让自己的另一半安心,最最最最重要的是,绝对要落落大方,不要有任何可疑的地方,这样就可以减少吵架的几率了~

还有一点,

千万不要让你的另一半觉得自己不如你的异性朋友重要。

不然,你就肯定是死定了。

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

开箱文:Herbaline

我终于去做了facial了!!我上一次做应该是最少1年前吧 =.=
还好我超爱喝水,所以就算没有保养,没有护肤,没有美容,我的皮肤最多也只是干了一点,雀斑多了一点,其它大致上都没有问题~ (这算是好事吗?)

远在4年前,我就听过Candy和我介绍Herbaline了~ 据她所说,Herbaline 收费便宜,服务良好,是个很不错的选择。4年前,由于种种因素,所以我没有关顾到;4年后,在忍不住自己的皮肤的惨况之后,我终于关顾了!

Photo Credits: bravo 


Herbaline顾名思义,所有产品都是取至植物精华,所以对皮肤很健康的哦~ 

我一去到,由于有点毛毛雨,就有人撑着雨伞迎接我进去里面~ (有VIP的感觉哦,哈哈~)

Photo Credits: Jane's Journal

一进去,美容师就让我一边享受红枣茶(几乎所有美容院都是让客人喝红枣茶,看来真的是美容圣品啊~),然后一边很和善的向我了解我平时的美容习惯(我根本就是没有在美容吧 =.=)然后再向我介绍了适合我的疗程~ 
由于我皮肤有点干,所以他们就介绍了“保湿及补水滋润护理”,让我可以好好的为肌肤补充水分~

我之前去的美容院,洗脸就是洗脸,绝对不会有任何多余的服务。

可是Herbaline不是哦~ 在洗脸前,美容师先带了我去享受 Foot Spa,让我能好好的放松~ 美容师还加了海盐~ 让洁净皮肤和消炎作用发挥到极尽~ (虽然我不是很能了解脸和脚的联系~ @.@)

Photo Credits: Jane's Journal

做完了Foot Spa,美容还没马上开始哦~ 接下来,美容师就把我带到正在不停的弄热的香精油前,让我深吸了3口气,据说可以进一步的帮助我放松~

Photo Credits: Herbaline

然后疗程终于开始了~

我的疗程包括了以下:
  • 双层脸部洁净护理
  • 超音波去角质 
  • 脸部指压按摩
  • 离子导入滋润护理
  • 奈米生物纤维面膜 
  • 东西方舒筋按摩
按摩不止包括了脸,还有肩膀和手~ 真的是享受的最高境界啊~

离开之前,还进一步的享受了再次的香精护理(这次是提神作用)和 Fish Spa~ 

这可是我第一次享受 Fish Spa,虽然有点痒,可是脚事后是真的滑了不少,而且感觉死皮也少了呢~ 呵呵~

OS:我知道我脚很肥~ >.< 

最最最最重要的是,这一切一切都只花了我RM99哦!!真的是super超值的!!

Monday, December 24, 2012

日记?周记?2012.12.24,充实忙碌的一天

昨天,过了非常充实饱满的一天。
我知道我应该是昨天update的,可是实在是累垮了,所以最后拖到今天早上~ (至少我写了咯~ @.@)

8.30am 起身,吃了美味的猪肠粉早餐后,就和宝贝的妈妈和妹妹一起去pasar pagi shopping哦~ 话说有人告诉我pasar pagi不算shopping~ @.@ 可是买到衣服就算了啦~ XD

这可是我第一次单独和宝贝的家人出去shopping啊~ 就算多累,多想继续赖床,我都会努力爬起身的!(话说。。我前一晚可是差不多半夜2点才睡的啊 =.=)

我很幸运的,买到了5件上衣哦!!也就是说我终于买到新年衣了!!这下,我不必担心我没衣服穿了 A__A 以下是我的战利品~ 呵呵~


很有新年气息吧~ XD

逛了一个早上后,当然就是回家洗澡准备second round~

12.20pm,和久违的Voon Yin见了面~ 为什么是久违的呢?毕竟我们一年才见一次面啊~ 所以算是年度聚会吧~

最最最遗憾的是,我竟然忘了和Voon Yin 还有 Jennifer 拍照~ T__T 我竟然还是到了今天看到 Jennifer post 的照片我才想起来,果然是老了啊 =.=

7.00pm,聚会之后,回家休息了下,然后就准备出门去宝贝父母的朋友家了~ 参观了下他们新搬的半独立洋楼,还真的是大间啊!真希望有一天也能住进去,哈哈,我知道我想太多了~ 毕竟我还是比较喜欢小屋子,感觉比较温暖~ ^.^

8.30pm,一家人就一起去Setia Alam Mall走街~ 可是,为什么每次去,我都不能突破第一楼啊~ 每次都只是困在第一楼,之后不是累了,就是所有商店都关了 =.=

Sunday, December 23, 2012

爱一个人,就要里里外外都爱上

我承认,这将是一篇在炫耀的文章,炫耀自己现在感觉有多快乐,有多幸福~ 所以不想看的人,可以现在直接把视窗关掉,我保证我绝对不会介意~

和宝贝在一起在一起这10个月半以来,我得到的最大的结论就是

另一半一定要可以接受原本的自己。

无论是男是女,只要勉强把自己变成另一个不属于自己的人永远都不会快乐。

在和CL在一起的那7年,他都很努力的把我“改造”成他想要的女人。
如果真的“改造”失败,他就勉强“改造”自己去接受原本的我。
可是,这并不是真正的接受。

和不同的男人在一起,女人就会变成不同的女人。

和CL在一起的时候,由于他需要我是一个强悍全能的女人,我就变成一个强悍全能的女人。
可是,事实上,我根本就不想做一个这样的女人。
我虽然不想做小女人,可是我还是很想有一个人可以靠。
希望在什么事发生的时候,我有一个男人可以站在我前面,帮我挡风遮雨。
当然,也有可能是因为,我可以是一个强悍的女人,CL就自然而然软弱下来。

我还记得在当初还没和宝贝在一起之前,我有很忐忑的告诉Candy,很担心这次的感情不会顺利。毕竟之前也交过一个双子座的男朋友,结果是我被搞到崩溃。。没错,就是崩溃,不只是字面上的那种,是直接精神失控的那种 =.= 由于那次的经验太糟糕,我就认定了双子座男朋友完全不适合我。(我承认我有点武断 =.=)

结果,我完全没有想到宝贝会是那么和我合拍的人。

不管我做的事情多幼稚,他都会陪着我,包容着我,甚至陪我一起疯。

当我又在自己自编自唱,以前的CL会说我幼稚,喜欢唱儿歌,做儿歌;宝贝只会做出比我更幼稚的歌曲,再不然就是陪着我唱。

当我很想吃某样食品的时候(相信我,我的craving是恐怖到几乎每星期会发生一次 =.=),宝贝会呱呱叫,可是还是会默默地去买了我想吃的东西。

当宝贝知道我很爱我的家人,他就每个月载我回家,让我见见我的家人。

在和宝贝在一起前,我或许有很多不确定和不安定,可是在一起后,我发现原来这么久以来,他竟然是最适合我的一个人。

他爱我,不只是爱我的好,他也去包容我的不好。

我问过他,为什么能那么包容我?他说,只要了解了我的性格,知道我为什么会这么做,就自然而然能够包容了。

爱一个人,不是只是爱表面的他,而是里里外外都接受。

每个人都有优缺点,不是要去改变他,而是要

改变自己的心态去配合那个人

在和CL分手前、在和宝贝在一起之后,Jennifer有告诉过我,无论做什么,最重要是我开心就好。

今天我可以很确定的说,我很开心,我很幸福。那种幸福的感觉是那么的满,在心里面就快要满出来了~

因为宝贝不只是自己爱我,他也让他的家人一样爱我,让我无时无刻都感受到大家的疼爱和关心。

在一起接近一年之后,我唯一的感想是,和宝贝在一起,是我这辈子其中一个最对的决定!

Saturday, December 22, 2012

浪漫的冬至~

现在是2012年11月22日,11点40分,末日还没来临。

虽说昨天看到了光明日报的报导说马来西亚的末日延迟至今天的下午2点(时差问题),我还是感觉不到有任何世界末日的迹象。

其实对于时差算错这回事,我个人是挺无言的 =.= 更让我无言的是,这个消息竟然在本地报纸出现 =.= 报纸不是应该给与正确的新闻和消息吗?他这样说,不是会造成更多人的恐慌 =.= 庆幸的是,马来西亚还没有人恐慌过度而自杀,不然光明日报就罪过罪过了。。

刚刚我也去看了gangnam style的点击率,已经破亿,末日还是没有来临。

为什么会去看gangnam style的点击率呢?当然是因为有另一个无聊的末日解读说,当gangnam style的video破亿的时候,就是世界末日的来临。(根本就是胡说八道,最后只是更多人去看 gangnam style的video罢了 =.=) 


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昨晚过了有史以来最难忘,最浪漫的冬至 - 烛光冬至。

由于我非常喜欢吃汤圆,所以我可是期待冬至期待了整年哦!
因为我喜欢吃的汤圆是那种中间空空完全没有料的,所以外面餐馆还不是普通的难找 =.=

让我就在这里献上冬至晚餐照片一张吧~


我知道照片很难看 =.= 所以我去宝贝哥哥的facebook偷了另一张~ XD


是不是好很多了呢?XD 除了角度问题,这里也证明了samsung的相机还是比apple的好啊~ 至少他们的flash也比较全面,不像iphone只有前半段亮 =.= 当然,我的电话还是 iphone4 可能也有影响吧~

宝贝妈妈很用心的准备很多菜啊~ 看到吗?有菜,有鱼,有烧肉,有虾,有鸡翅膀~ 可真的是非常丰盛的一餐啊~ (话说,这些菜只有6个人吃罢了,每人还有一大碗汤哦~ 可想而知,我的确是饱死了 @@)

可是,还是要感谢宝贝的妈妈那么努力为大家做菜哦 ^^

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P/S:由于昨天KL狂风暴雨,再加上停电,真的有世界末日的感觉呢~ 我自己是觉得很浪漫下啦~ 哈哈~